tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4693401219959272564.post6729198891538730837..comments2024-03-25T05:49:46.932-04:00Comments on My Name Is Not Bob: Speaking Tips for WritersRobert Lee Brewerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03733003865003484352noreply@blogger.comBlogger21125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4693401219959272564.post-53194456248669212542011-05-04T17:30:16.060-04:002011-05-04T17:30:16.060-04:00Good point, wordkyle! Everyone should know their o...Good point, wordkyle! Everyone should know their own strengths, weaknesses, special needs, etc., and apply that to their speaking. Also, extensive preparation helps the whole thing work out better in the end.Robert Lee Brewerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03733003865003484352noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4693401219959272564.post-84356001591343858982011-04-28T17:52:16.443-04:002011-04-28T17:52:16.443-04:00A brief comment on reading aloud to an audience - ...A brief comment on reading aloud to an audience - I have pretty bad eyesight, and reading from a regular printed source is hard for me without bringing it to within inches of my eyes. When doing such a project, I type out the material to be read in extra large lettering, then put the sheets in plastic protector sleeves, which I put into a binder. <i>That</i> is what I read from. By placing the binder on the lectern, I keep page-turning distractions to a minimum, and I'm able to stand more naturally erect while speaking. What's more, I can make notes, marks or other useful notations on the copy to help me read it better. This method requires much more work than simply reading from a book, but -- for me -- it produces vastly superior results.wordkylehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02549204377613217823noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4693401219959272564.post-3569983326386813922011-04-20T09:26:36.085-04:002011-04-20T09:26:36.085-04:00Thanks, Robert. I've found TM most helpful for...Thanks, Robert. I've found TM most helpful for learning to think on my feet. Many local groups offer scheduled meeting time for practicing short, extemporaneous responses to various questions. After almost two years, I'm actually processing relevant information more quickly.<br /><br />www.sgsdesign.comUnknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00987854879006920878noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4693401219959272564.post-44645586826369139202011-04-18T13:19:11.112-04:002011-04-18T13:19:11.112-04:00Slow down! Yes! That's one problem I sometimes...Slow down! Yes! That's one problem I sometimes have when speaking is I don't slow down and my words either don't get heard or they don't get understood. Very good advice throughout.Stephen L. Braytonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14575880529198211433noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4693401219959272564.post-15923536974738660402011-04-17T14:42:20.720-04:002011-04-17T14:42:20.720-04:00Good point, Sandra. Channeling that nervous energy...Good point, Sandra. Channeling that nervous energy can turn you into a dynamic speaker (who is secretly terrified of the audience). Move your hands, tell self-deprecating jokes, share anecdotes. Be human, and the audience will respond favorably.<br /><br />Jason, your point about the rule of three is very important for factual/research presentations. Repetition and reinforcement helps everything "stick" after the presentation is over. Thanks!Robert Lee Brewerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03733003865003484352noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4693401219959272564.post-62377890490043494932011-04-17T12:44:29.895-04:002011-04-17T12:44:29.895-04:00Great points! One thing I'd like to add: If yo...Great points! One thing I'd like to add: If you're nervous, channel that energy and use it in your presentation. Belive me, it makes a BIG difference. And, most importantly, remember that everybody messes up.<br /><br />http://sandrasbookclub.blogspot.comBook Club Reviewerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15030306241563341911noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4693401219959272564.post-28747486950683141482011-04-15T22:34:34.128-04:002011-04-15T22:34:34.128-04:00Another useful to remember for factual / research ...Another useful to remember for factual / research presentations: "Tell them what you're going to say, say it, then tell them what you said." I don't know a good source, but it's a good general point.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4693401219959272564.post-82038634723465008512011-04-15T21:54:33.848-04:002011-04-15T21:54:33.848-04:00Nice points on using a lectern effectively, Merna....Nice points on using a lectern effectively, Merna.<br /><br />Great point, Sarah, about having water handy. In fact, I recently did not bring water up with me and struggled to get through the second half of my reading as my throat dried out. Not making that mistake again (until I do). :)<br /><br />Writerrabe, a poet can easily make a handout that has a poem (preferably one that is performed at the reading) or two, and the poet's name and contact information (including url).Robert Lee Brewerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03733003865003484352noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4693401219959272564.post-27499112107973842662011-04-15T14:37:49.046-04:002011-04-15T14:37:49.046-04:00Handouts are fantastic! But, what would you hand ...Handouts are fantastic! But, what would you hand out at a poetry reading?<br />I enjoyed hearing you and reading your handouts at Austin Internation Poetry Festival! I would add that I really enjoyed those who memorized the first poem or two. Despite reading three times during the event, I did not have one memorized but I need to do that!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4693401219959272564.post-42613108166011758152011-04-15T14:23:02.346-04:002011-04-15T14:23:02.346-04:00I always learn something interesting from your pos...I always learn something interesting from your posts, Robert--and the comments. (Here I was thinking a podium was the one that's free-standing, while a lectern's the kind that sits on a table. But, thinking about the word root of podium, makes perfect sense that podium = dais...)<br /><br />Anyway, I wanted to echo the advice about practice, and especially your tip about slowing down. Remembering to breathe is important, and it gives you time to keep your thoughts in order. This is one I have to keep reminding myself of whenever I'm reading, especially, and when I'm under a time limit. Nervousness also makes me tend to rush a bit, but just being aware of it helps a lot. <br /><br />As a not-so-tall person, I tend to stand next to the lectern anyway, but having it there to hold materials, microphone, & water is a major bonus. In fact, my tip would be don't forget to have a glass or bottle of water handy! If you're up there for a while, your throat might get dry and scratchy (especially if you're nervous). And stopping now and then to take a sip can help you remember to pace yourself.Sarah Stevensonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16534942492714970282noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4693401219959272564.post-28787460761781959672011-04-15T12:29:43.785-04:002011-04-15T12:29:43.785-04:00Robert: Thank you for that great list. I just did ...Robert: Thank you for that great list. I just did a speaking engagement on Saturday and I did okay except for the hand outs. Will fix that next time! Thank you.<br />Wendy<br />W.S. Gager<br />www.wsgager.comWS Gagerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02278366853908626596noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4693401219959272564.post-8554727270707052072011-04-15T11:29:22.126-04:002011-04-15T11:29:22.126-04:00I work with many authors, preparing them for book ...I work with many authors, preparing them for book tours and media interviews and I agree with your helpful tips and understand comments about using a lectern. (We stand on a podium and behind a lectern, but I'm quibbling). In a bookstore setting, a lectern can serve you well as an anchored position for your audience and a helpful place for you to hold a hefty volume, but to avoid it becoming a barrier, I recommend that you never grab or lean on it - it will steal your energy. Let it hold your book, but not you. Use your arms and hands to gesture and pass your energy out to your audience. If you do forgo the lectern, hold your book at waist height in one hand. Occasionally switch the book to the other hand. For more on controlling nerves and handling Q & A's contact me at: ms@satoricommunications.com MernaMerna Dyer Skinnerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06491749162062087947noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4693401219959272564.post-88242908540611404922011-04-15T10:51:57.430-04:002011-04-15T10:51:57.430-04:00Hi Bill,
Great advice. This is pretty much what w...Hi Bill,<br /><br />Great advice. This is pretty much what we were taught at the Marine Corps Staff NCO Academy in our Techniques of Military Instruction class. I would agree with wordkyle that practice, practice, practice is an essential element.<br /><br />Rick @ thewritersuniverse.comrbdwyer001https://www.blogger.com/profile/17536104422440466965noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4693401219959272564.post-19944612688675639782011-04-15T09:50:57.009-04:002011-04-15T09:50:57.009-04:00Wordkyle, yes, practice-practice-practice is essen...Wordkyle, yes, practice-practice-practice is essential. Speaking skills (like writing skills) develop over time. And thanks for correcting me on the podium vs. lectern. With no TM experience, I'm used to everyone getting it wrong (including me). :)<br /><br />Hannah, I agree that not having a podium can help the connection between you and the audience--but not if the speaker is holding a piece of paper that is shaking out of control. Then, the audience is focused on the shaking instead of the speaking. I'm making the assumption that most writers are not speaking every day or week.<br /><br />Bill, send me an e-mail (robertleebrewer@gmail.com) if you're interested in doing a guest post on the subject of efficiently handling the Q&A session. If you have experience, then I'd love to see your ideas on the subject.Robert Lee Brewerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03733003865003484352noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4693401219959272564.post-18626090762729383012011-04-15T09:18:41.719-04:002011-04-15T09:18:41.719-04:00I agree with the others--a very good post.Since yo...I agree with the others--a very good post.Since you obviously know your subject,please consider doing a similar piece on handling questions from the audience. The impact of many a good presentation gets lost if the Q&A session goes poorly. If you like, I can send you some thoughts under separate cover.<br /><br />R. William (Bill) HollandUnknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11704681581043982236noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4693401219959272564.post-17734753290836004202011-04-15T09:16:58.076-04:002011-04-15T09:16:58.076-04:00I have to disagree. I'm a professionsl speaker...I have to disagree. I'm a professionsl speaker and I must say to you all, NEVER use a podium...it completely blocks the connection between you and the audience. It's a barrier.Unknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18213483861019958961noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4693401219959272564.post-991473003150300762011-04-15T08:32:32.798-04:002011-04-15T08:32:32.798-04:00Great advice! I had to learn these tips the hard w...Great advice! I had to learn these tips the hard way when I began teaching.Valerie Niemanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04745522442983938100noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4693401219959272564.post-836858316075526482011-04-15T08:20:19.879-04:002011-04-15T08:20:19.879-04:00Your points are all solid. One additional point mi...Your points are all solid. One additional point might be "practice, practice, practice." As a longtime Toastmaster, I can vouch for that organization's effectiveness in helping with that. My TM experience has taught me something else -- the <i>podium</i> is what you stand on. You put your notes on a <i>lectern.</i> (I was corrected on that mistake early on. You wouldn't believe how compulsive some of those people are. They're as bad as writers!)wordkylehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02549204377613217823noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4693401219959272564.post-7094771365158466372011-04-14T17:29:44.498-04:002011-04-14T17:29:44.498-04:00Awesome advice and timely: Ive just been asked to ...Awesome advice and timely: Ive just been asked to speak. <br /><br />(already I'm shaking. I hope there's a podium)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4693401219959272564.post-78470406004740486002011-04-14T15:27:56.479-04:002011-04-14T15:27:56.479-04:00Great advice, not Bob.
One can have great voice ...Great advice, not Bob. <br /><br />One can have great voice without speaking.<br /><br />thanks for everything Robert, my best to Tammy and the boysAPG Jamiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09839103538244899718noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4693401219959272564.post-37941561448161961732011-04-14T14:26:41.585-04:002011-04-14T14:26:41.585-04:00Very good post, Robert! I will remember this shou...Very good post, Robert! I will remember this should I ever get the chance to speak somewhere.<br /><br />Though, since I lurk on Poetic Asides most times and not take part even there, I very much doubt I will. lolJennifer Ruth Jacksonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04699005759754946494noreply@blogger.com